Friday, October 26, 2012
Jonah and Josh Back to Uganda
Quick update. Jonah and I are going to Uganda for 2 weeks with our friends the Mulliniks. Momma and Saylah are holding down the fort in Denver.
Who knows what is in store for this trip, whatever it is I don't expect it to disappoint.
I will write again when we land in Uganda.
Friday, February 3, 2012
Back in Uganda
Hello everyone. Wanted to share a few pics with you from our first week back in Nansana Uganda.
This is Jonah sitting with all his Pre-school classmates at Wakiso Christian International Academy or WCIA for short. WCIA is our big school project we started at the beginning of 2011. The classes are full and we are going over expansion ideas right now. The children at the school come from all different backgrounds: some have been orphaned or abandoned, others come from the slums, and other come from what we might call a "normal family". All these kids are being giving an awesome oppurtunity in developing spiritually, academically, emotionally and physically.
The picture of Saylah just makes me laugh. She is being held by the nurse at the school, Gladys. If you have ever been to Uganda you will notice the baby girls wearing beads, rumor has it that the purpose of these beads it to help them develop a waist. I don't know if it works but I guess we will find out.
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
Back in the UG
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8MqdElajYfc
Here is another one of him and his buddy Dillon playing in the back of the farm truck.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yngTYPSgH4g
Good morning, good afternoon, good evening, or good night -
We have made it safely to Nansana Uganda and life is in full swing. Between being parents and work we are more than busy, but loving it.
Jonah is doing awesome, he has made the transition to living with us very well, it helps that we live and work with so many Ugandans because they help with translating as well as helping him develop his Luganda (we really want him to know the language here so we are taking classes to learn it enough to keep it going with him back in the US). Wilfred and Vena are the couple he was staying with before we came, Wilfred is the man that founded the kids home we work with, Mercy Childcare Ministries. Wilfred is known to Jonah as "Apostle" or in Jonah's words "Aposo". Aposo and Mama Vena have done such an amazing job with him and we are so thankful. They currently have 2 other children staying with them and Vena just gave birth to Graham, a beautiful healthy baby boy. Jonah's development has amazed us, he is talking all the time know and is very good at picking up words from everywhere around him. He is extremely analytical and loves opening and closing things, turn things on and off. He will find something that interests him and stare at it forever until he figures it out. He is completely potty-trained with the exception of a diaper at night time, a simple "Mama/Dada fuka" and we run him to the toilet or longdrop and he does his business. He also learned the Lugandan word for fart and finds it quite entertaining say it over and over. He loves going around the neighborhood and playing with the other children, although he is not quite sure yet who is "top dog" so he often greets other kids that are his size or a bit bigger with a punch to the chest (he is pretty gentle/submissive to kids smaller than him or significantly bigger). We are working on it though and might just have to let him get knocked over a few times for him to realize he isn't as big as he thinks he is.
We had a meeting with Isaac (the Ugandan Adoption Lawyer) last Friday and he gave a a clear timeline on where the process is going. Thanks to the US adoption agency we have everything we need and we now are at the mercy of the courts here in Uganda. Isaac was very hopeful because to the judges we are a Unique case because we aren't here for 3 weeks to swoop in and pick the child up, we have established a solid part-time residency here which the judges prefer. We are still hopeful for a December 13th return to Illinois with Baby J joining us.
Currently our days are filled with meetings, planning and budgeting for some of the new projects (New School, Wakiso Christian International Academy - Phase 1, New Medical Clinic, and the Vocational Training School at the Farm). All these are ideas and dreams that have been developed over the last few years and our team goal this fall is to begin to implement them. We have 6 Americans and 10 Ugandans working in the field to keep this ball rolling, continued prayer that God unites us to bring something that is glorifying to him.
We will keep you updated on everything else as things progress. We are so thankful to be here with him and to have such an awesome opportunity to work with Come Let's Dance.
Love you all -
Monday, March 15, 2010
Thursday, January 28, 2010
joy and pain walk hand in hand
"joy and pain walk hand in hand"
We have stories from the last month here with Come Let's Dance that have drastically impacted our lives, stories that will rest in our minds forever, experiences that we have yet to process, but yesterday was a day that opened my eyes to the inevitable connection between joy and pain.
Today (January 27th) we started the day as usual, breakfast together and time to talk about the day. There was 8 of us so we decided to split into two groups of 4. The first group went to Thread of Life (TOL), our sew shop project that helps destitute women with training so they can have a skill to provide for their families. Currently they are making all of the school uniforms for the kids house, Solomon (the shop manager) asked if we could come over and help sew buttons. The other group decided to go visit people at Mulago hospital in the Children's Cancer Ward, the same place we had gone on Christmas day.
We arrived at Mulago around noon, the doctors were still doing there rounds so we promised to stay out of their way so they could get work done. We spread out, all taking time to meet different children, some of which were smiling because of the visitors others were laying in bed with blank stares across their face. One boy had a tumor on his jaw the size of a volleyball, we learned that 2 weeks prior he had no sign of sickness. Another child we recognized from Christmas, he sat in the same bed crying in the same way he had on Christmas day, his mother said they had been there for two months. His mother told us they failed to find money for the treatment, "He needed six treatments and they were 22,000 schillings each ($11USD)." One woman, Mama Daniel, had been in the hospital for 3 weeks with Stomach Cancer, her 2 boys Kenneth (10) and Daniel (4) were staying with neighbors because they have no family in Kampala. She is afraid that she will pass away soon but the doctors haven't given her a clear answer so she in not sure what to do with her boys. They won't be attending school this year because her sickness has taken all of their money and they have nothing left to pay school fees. She told us all of this through her hunger pains because she had nothing to buy food for the day.
After many conversations and prayers with some of the patients I heard a loud weeping coming from two beds away, slowly I made my way to the bed to see a girl named Solanche shaking and foaming from the mouth, the mother could not handle watching and left the room while a relative called for the nurses. There was a cold silence in the room as everyone tried not to stare but could notice the looks of helplessness even in the eyes of the doctors. As the seconds rushed by, the mood shifted, fewer eyes focused on Solanche and more eyes began to bow in prayer. The doctors tried switching her I.V., for 5 minutes nothing was working. Finally she stopped, I looked at her but she laid there still, her arms that were once shaking now rested limp. As her eyes rolled back I thought to myself, "Is she dead, is that really it, just like that? No effort, no heart monitors, no CPR?" I wanted to do something pick her up, yell her name...do something. Understanding my absolute lack of knowledge in anything medical I did the first thing that came to my mind, I went outside to console the mother. As she stood there gasping, trying to catch her breath I stood there like an idiot saying the same old cliche, "It's going to be okay." I had no idea if it would be okay, I didn't even know if she understood me, but I thought that maybe it could help. After a few minutes I left her and went back inside, as I approached the bed I heard a terrible noise, it sounded like a gurgled hissing. To my surprise it was Solanche, she was now laying back breathing again, not easily but she was breathing. As she laid there panting I could see that the doctor had left, the sister had gone outside to tell the mother that she was still alive, there was one woman standing by her side. Mike (one of the other volunteers here at CLD) and I asked the woman if we could pray for her, the woman agreed and we prayed. And we prayed, and we prayed, and prayed some more. As I prayed I continuously thought about all the times Jesus had healed people, I remembered the disciples healing people, I desperately pleaded with God to give me the faith to bring comfort to this girl. Earlier we learned that 2 days before this same girl had been at home cooking with her mother, and here she was laying in a hospital bed in severe pain, I asked God to let her cook again. After 30 minutes, the nurses had returned to adjust her 3 I.V.s and check her heart rate. We stepped back and watched helplessly, wondering what kind of suffering this girl was experiencing. As the family gathered around we moved out of the way to let them have time with their daughter. They hired a man to come and take pictures of them with the girl fearing that she would soon be gone. It is about a 15 minute walk from Mulago Hospital to Thread of Life, during the walk Mike and I exchanged thoughts on the situation, and I wondered what is the mother going through? What does it feel like to watch you daughter in that situation?
As we arrived to TOL we saw smiling faces, the whole time everyone had been happily sewing buttons. In the sewing room 10 Ugandan women, some that had at one time been prostitutes, now sat on sewing machines working on the uniforms as their healthy children ran around playing at their feet. They are getting paid per uniform and will use the money to buy food and medicine for their children. The uniforms they are working on are for the kids at Mercy Childcare who 6 years ago had no hope of ever going to school. As Solomon instructed them on the importance of the quality of the uniforms I saw a 22 year old man completely in his element, leading people with love, providing for them a way of life. In the other room there were 4 Americans in their early 20's, 4 people who at one time were completely self-centered and oblivious to the reality of life across the world. These people sat there joyfully sewing buttons, joyfully understanding the process, joyfully working with Ugandans to bring hope to this small part of the world. On the taxi ride home I thought about why that girl had not been healed, I thought about all the answers that have been fed to me about suffering in the world, and then I realized that while I had seen pain that day I had seen even more joy. I realized that we don't have to feel joyful about Solanche's pain, but that we do have to continue to work our butts off to bring hope to people - to ourselves. I realized that because of TOL many women will have the opportunity to treat their sick children and to raise up out of poverty. I realized that all those children who are now attending school will grow up to be doctors and leaders that will bring more healing to this place. I realized that there is a generation of people refusing to live only for themselves, refusing to be lazy, refusing to quit, and always willing to learn from mistakes.
As I finish this blog it is now the end of January 28th, I wish I could say that today was easier, but it wasn't. We returned to Mulago for a quick visit, as I glanced across the room I saw that Solanche was still there, alive but in pain. I stopped to say hello to Mama Daniel, she said it had been a rough day and that they had lost many lives, I turned to see which beds were empty but that they had already been filled up with new faces. These days aren't easy but we refuse to quit, we refuse to forget that joy and pain walk hand in hand.
Love you all...
Monday, November 30, 2009
DON’T GET STUCK IN A TREE IF THE RAIN IS COMING
Hello everyone thanks for taking the time to read our updates even though they are rare. Hopefully through them you are able to experience some of these adventures with us and getting your own taste of Uganda. I wanted to write about a quick story about one of our friends here who took us to his village.
In Uganda everyone has a village, even if they have lived in the city their entire life they still belong to the village of their parents or relatives. Pastor Ben, one of the Ugandan staff members at CLD, is from a village called Kaliro about 3 hours north-east of Kampala. Ben has an interesting story about how he ended up re-connecting with Kaliro. Similar too many other cultures around the world there is a major emphasis put on having a son to pass on the family name. Ben’s father had many wives, all of which gave him daughters, eventually after having 6 children Ben’s father met a woman that would finally give him a son (Ben). As he was growing up they lived in the village farming the land that his family owned, waking up at 4:30am to “dig” for 3 hours before they went to school. The village has one dirt road that runs through the middle, some of the families have mud huts with grass roofs, some of the families have upgraded to brick homes with tin roofs. Each home has a plot of land that the family uses to grow maze, potatoes, beans, kasava, and my personal favorite mangos. When you are there you begin to realize that there are many children and many people over 40, however there is a large gap between generations because so many have either moved to the city to try and find work or there is a large portion that has died of HIV/Aids. The people live a simple life focusing on providing for their families and making sure there is enough food to eat. There is no electricity but some of them have cell phones that are either charged the sun or they take them into town to be charged (the batteries last for a week or so).
Anyway back to Ben’s story, when Ben was a boy his father died, many people in the village desired the family’s property. There was a group of men that began to make a plot to kill Ben so there would be no legitimate heir for the property and they could take it over. At the time Ben was staying in Ginja with his mom attending a primary school. Fearing for his life Ben’s mother took him to a local Pastors house to stay until they could figure something out. Fortunately he stayed safe and was able to continue school in Ginja until he was P7 and finished Primary School (Elementary School). In Uganda the government does not provide free education, so everyone has to pay school fees to attend school each year. As a result many children have to take time off of school until they can find a way to pay their way; it is not uncommon to find people who are 20 years old and in High School. Due to the expense of school fees Ben moved to the Kampala area to try and find a sponsor to help pay his way through school.
In secondary school he met 4 guys that would play a huge role in his life. Away from home and his family Ben was challenged to question if Jesus was this guy who everyone said he was, as he made his way through school he grew closer and closer to these 4 guys. Eventually Ben submitted and gave his life to God and with these 4 four began to do some amazing things. They began to reach out to their classmates explaining their personal stories and how God had proved true to be a provider and a hope in all times. I laughed so hard when Ben told me that he was actually expelled from a school for sneaking out a group of students to take them to pray. Ben transferred schools but stayed very close with his 4 friends. Finally in S4 (the equivalent of our junior year) at the age of 17 Ben and his friends planted Light the World Church (LTW). Eventually he graduated Secondary school and moved onto study business at Makere University, the whole time he was working as a Pastor at LTW. During this time LTW began working with Shane to develop what would eventually become Come Let’s Dance (CLD). When Ben graduated University he continued pastoring at LTW and he began to work as the Ugandan head for CLD, managing the employees and the business/financial side of the ministry.
2 years ago Ben decided he wanted to go back to his village and begin to reinvest in the place he was from. His first project was to set up a church in the village; they began to clean up the property his father passed on to him. They built a large hut with mud walls and a grass roof so they would have a church for the community. He worked hard bringing the gospel to his home, working with local leaders to teach them and encourage them in the work they were doing. Recently they were able to donate 10 bibles to the church, all of which are printed in the native language, Luganda. Ben returns to his village a couple times every month to visit the people and work on his current project “Pigs for Hope”. They have built a small pig shelter where they currently house 2 pigs, hopefully soon the pigs will fall in love and make babies. When the pigs start to reproduce Ben and the other leaders will begin working with the other people in the village. All of the families will get on a list to receive piglets from each litter. As the pigs grow each family will be required to apply the same model with their pigs, gifting them to other families – it is kind of like network marketing with pigs in Uganda. Last week we had the opportunity to go with Ben to his village, picture a bunch of white people showing up to a small African village in a mini-van. The kids crowded around us as we pulled in, some were excited while others were so scared they would run away if we got within 50 feet of them. The people were so welcoming to us – two families opened up their homes for us to sleep in, and Jacob (the pastor of the church) immediately invited us to a prayer meeting with his church.
On the second day we visited the primary and secondary school in Kaliro. The primary school children had prepared for us a choir performance, about 30 kids singing traditional African songs. We spent some time in smaller groups encouraging them, learning about what they were studying, and praying for the older ones that were about to take their exams to get into secondary school. Just before we left we were able to present a soccer ball as a small gift to the headmaster, the kids went crazy because they had been played with a ball made up of rolled up plastic bags.
After the primary school we headed to “Bright Futures Secondary School”. We were set to have a program to speak to all the students and have a Q&A session, unfortunately it rained for 3 hours. We split up and went with different groups around to see their classrooms, they were so excited to pick our brains. Some kids were fascinated with America, most of the older kids had questions that stopped me in my tracks, asking about the history of Uganda and Africa. Asking questions about the UN’s involvement in Uganda, curious about the American perspective of Africa’s future. It is amazing to see how mature and passionate these students are about life, I was thinking back to the things I cared about when I was 16 and how shallow and selfish I was. After some intense time with the students they challenged us to a football match, of course we accepted. It was still raining so the field was covered in mud, the entire student body gathered around the field to watch and laugh because we all kept slipping. As you can probably imagine they dominated us, the final score was 4-2. We headed home soaking wet and muddy, but full of joy at the experience we had to do life with these kids.
The rain finally stopped so we able to do the movie night that we had planned on. We brought a generator, speakers, and a projector from the church, we strung a white sheet in between to sticks and planted it in the front of Ben’s home next to the church. Close to 200 people came to watch, Ben had picked out some movies that showed bible stories – one was in Luganda and the others had to be translated. It was a fantastic experience for all of us and fortunately for most of the night the rained stayed away.
The next morning we had to leave so we packed up the taxi. We ate porridge with our host family and Pastor Jacob. During breakfast we talked with Jacob about his ideas for the future of the church. We prayed together and they sent us off. We were there for such a short time but Ben said that he was so thankful that he was able to share his home with us.
During the 3 hour drive home all you can do is think. Think about the strength these people have, think about the joy living inside of them. Think about how even 3000 miles away from home in a small village people are pursuing Christ with their lives, learning what it means to be a disciple of him. I am amazed by the perseverance that exists in these people, to see how persistent their prayers are to God – begging for rain to come down and grow their crops. I can also see so many similarities between myself and them: the pain they experience from the loss of loved ones remains the same, the fear of not being able to provide for their families, the happiness that comes from small victories, and the joy that comes from building relationships.
Ben’s story is encouraging to me, but more importantly it is encouraging to the people here. He understands what it means to be blessed by God and to use that blessing to help others. I pray that as he continues he will stay solid in his commitment to these people, to his people.
The more time I spend here the more I realize that Uganda doesn’t need more money, they don’t need a superhero to swoop in and save them, they need stories like Ben’s. Stories of commitment and love, stories that teach people that living for others is more fulfilling than silver and gold. My encouragement comes knowing that God has placed people here to rise up and fight corruption, to refuse to let Uganda go down.
AMEN (let it be)
Sunday, October 25, 2009
Rainy Season In Uganda
Good morning from South Central Uganda, so many apologies again for being such slackers in the blog updating department. From what we hear life is more bizarre at home than it is here, if I am not mistaken the Broncos are now 6-0 and Obama has won the Nobel Peace Prize. I didn’t think the day would ever come when I would know more about World Cup soccer than the NFL, I also never expected to see blue jeans for sale with the Presidents face on them – how weird life is.
I want to somehow convey how wonderful it has been to come face to face with God here, I know everyone reading this is not Christian so I am going to try my best to not write in Christanese, but I have to be honest and give credit where credit is due.
Uganda is an incredible place, filled with incredible people and incredible stories. We tried to come here with few expectations of what we would be doing and who we would meet, attempting to be open to whatever might be thrown our way. As mentioned before we are here working with an organization named “Come Let’s Dance” or CLD for short. I think the best way I can sum up CLD is: a group of people faithfully stumbling through life in a foreign place with the goal of making long-term lasting impact. They have taken a unique approach to reaching out to a community here, attempting to connect with people and humbly teaming up with them to create positive impact. In the midst of all of this understanding that they don’t have all the answers and that solid impact takes a long time to see manifested. We are so blessed to be invited into their world of relationships, hard work, perseverance, and prayers. Currently there are about 4 main projects we are working on:
* Mercy Childcare Ministries – A few years ago a group of Ugandan men (none of which were over the age of 21) had recognized a need for so many of the children in this community. They began to work with the local authorities and other groups to start what we would call an orphanage. However, these men did not want to create another orphanage. As a result of the poverty situation in Uganda so many parents that cannot afford to raise their children find ways to get them into an orphanage in hopes that long term it will be better for their child. As a result the family structure in Uganda has taken a huge hit. Wilfred (one of the founders of Mercy Childcare) has a strict philosophy of family empowerment; he is dedicated to finding the families of every child who is currently under their care and working with them to eventually re-establish these children into the family they came from. As you can imagine the system is not perfect, some of the children have lost their parents to AIDS or some other kind of tragedy, but Wilfred still tries to locate grandparents, aunts, and uncles. Currently out of the 70 children under the care of Mercy Childcare they have contacted and are working with the families of 60????? of the children. The children that they cannot find families for are usually the youngest ones because they are not old enough to know what their parent’s names were or where they used to live. For these children adoption is the best option. Wilfred works with many people both local and abroad to find solid families them. CLD has partnered with Mercy Childcare to help them with all sorts of projects, in SPRING 2008???? A compound was purchased -- the word compound sounds odd but it basically means a house with a wall of protection around it and also some extra rooms on the property that are not connected to the main house. We are working now on establishing an after school program 2 days a week, futbol on Wednesdays, and a big activity day on Saturdays (yesterday we did the Slip’n’slide). The children are amazing: life for them is much different than the childhood that I knew but they are still full of joy and a ton of fun to be around. The majority of them are at school 5 days a week from 8-4pm studying all the basics. The school system doesn’t have the greatest teaching structure but the kids are learning. One of the biggest needs is school fees because all of the schools here are private. However, through tons of provision most of them have sponsors (local or abroad) that help pay their way through high school.
* The Farm – We are still working on a name for it, but as you probably figured out it is a farm. About 2 years ago?????? CLD purchased 20 acres of land about 2 hours away from Kampala with dreams of turning it into a farm that could do three things: 1. Provide work for locals – i.e. hiring a farm manager to run the farm, someone who understands the local agriculture and have him hire men as needed for various projects. (Quick Fact: A high day wage here for a laborer on a farm is 8000 schillings, approximately $4 USD) 2. Provide the food needed at Mercy Childcare Ministries. 3. When the farm has grown and become sustainable, it will be used as a vocational training center to teach people the skills they need to farm in their villages. The farm is a huge project that takes a lot of resources and a lot of time, but it is progressing quickly. Currently 5 acres of the land is in the process of being cultivated and planted, and we are working on planting 1.5 kilometers of live fencing around the property line (We have about 1500 out of 5000 trees planted). The American in me wants to hire out some big machinery and get this done quick but that is not how they do it here -- we have a shed full of machetes and hoes and every day there are people out in the fields working hard.
* Thread of Life (TOL) – A man named Solomon runs a shop where they employ women in need with jobs making beaded necklaces and purses. The women go through a 6 week training course where they learn about how to make the necklaces and how to sew. They also learn the basic business skills they will need to run their own outfit. After the course the women have the opportunity to work for TOL and perfect their skills, and then they either go and start their own shop or stay on as teachers for the training course. The startup cost is very low because the beads are made from tightly rolled shreds of magazine paper, and all the fabric is purchased at local markets. Solomon is working on getting a website going where they can sell the beads worldwide.
* Enkoko Kulwe Suubi (Chickens for Hope) – A woman here named Shakira had a vision of owning a chicken business, and that this business could sustain her family and also provide enough money to fund the slum ministry. Shakira has had a long journey, she was working as a prostitute in Kampala and through a variety of connections and people she was ministered to and got involved in a program at a church that tried to help women get away from that life. Through that she became a Christian and she met a man named Joseph who she is now married to. They have 2 children of their own and an adopted child. Until 1 month ago they were living in the Katanga slums working with CLD to continue to develop the chicken business. A small plot of land was purchased and with the help of volunteers they recently completed a small house for them to live in and the chicken coop is currently finished and they are on a waiting list to get the chickens to fill it.
That is the short version of everything that is going on here. If you are interested in learning more about a specific project just let me know and I can give you more information, they are always looking for people that can being praying or helping in any way.
On a day to day basis we are working with people on all the different projects, each day brings a new set of surprises and problems, but with them comes a new set of victories and joy. We have seen some amazing things here that have opened up our eyes to understand how God is working around the world and not just in Denver, Colorado. It is also cool to see the different ways that God connects people across cultures, to see the ways that we can exchange love back and forth. We are learning a lot about who we are, about what defines us, and about what is important to us. We are missing everyone at home, and we are so thankful to Al Gore for inventing the internet so we can stay connected (did he win a Nobel Prize for that?) We love you all, please keep us posted with stories of home and our big requests are these:
1. Please pray for the people here, that God would continue to work in amazing ways.
2. Please eat a big Chipotle burrito (with an Arnold Palmer), and also if you could eat some Spicy Garlic wings dipped in ranch dressing for us that would be greatly appreciated.
BYE MZUNGUS!